How ego is fuelled into us to get job done.

I had a great learning after a dispute with my girlfriend today. I am getting so better in understanding human behaviour.

Remember during the childhood, in school, teachers fuel your ego to tame you . They’ll say words like — “Ohh , see this boy cant even solve 2+3”. Thats the first injection of “ego” into your blood stream .

During the whole childhood, youth period, in family and in friends, in jobs in companies, lot of people fuel your ego, to tame you to get their job done. And sometimes we are very smart but most of the times we take that injection of “ego” and start to work towards it or against what was said, in process leaving our own unconditioned path.

Everyone in the whole world works for each other through a communication of ego to get value from each other. We are never accustomed to deliver value with trust and love (because they fail at a large scale, the trust and love chain is as strong as its weakest link).

You will also hear at times, females putting an acquisition on males about “Male Ego”. Lot of the men either go in a totally opposite direction to disprove the female, which means they fell into the trap of proving and giving attention to them; or they start to change themselves, which is again falling into the trap and leaving the unconditioned path which they were following before the acquisition.

At a very high level, “ego” is just a word, but this word conditions us so much since childhood , because we hear it , we see it , we read articles about it, that it becomes something inside us. Now this something inside us becomes the driver to control us, and lot of people at a higher state of consciousness are aware of this driver being present in everyone and try to control surrounding world by controlling the driver.

Next time someone says to you something “you will be able to do this” , “or I trust you for this”, read their body language, most of the time they are talking to your ego .

So what is the best way to come out of such a situation ?

A simple way is , listen to it , but don’t take it seriously . hahahahaha.